Let’s Have Some Fun


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As you know and probably have read, I am writing children’s manuscripts.  I am having so much fun and am learning in the process.  I have made it a practice to read several children’s books a week…I peruse every “top ten” list and head to Barnes and Noble to journey into the minds of the writers and the hearts of their stories.

I know each of us has a favorite story, a story that brings back memories, a favorite character, a favorite experience reading a story.  Share it with us.  In the comment section below tell us your favorite children’s book and take a moment to share why it was so special to you.  I will post all the comments so that we can together experience that pondering with you.

Not only will we all benefit from a “feel good” experience, but you will take a few minutes out of your busyness, to rest, to remember, to change your endorphines, and to bellow the joy-fire within.

Happy pondering…I look forward to sharing with you.

Economics and Image


I went to the hair dresser the other day and had a stimulating conversation I thought I would share with you.  I actually have rather curly hair, but I perceive it as not being enough to “go curly”…so I have learned to use it.  Like so many, I have tried many products to “make it curlier”…to “make it straighter”…to hold it in place, give it body, decrease the frizz…I think you know what I mean.  I have finally come up with a system for my own comfort and appreciation of my hair.  I don’t tell too many people about it because it is unorthodoxed and not the way the industry tells us to do things with our hair, but it is working for me.

So when I walked in, my hair stylist played with my hair, told me how “lovely” it looked (which is always a plus…except when you are in the mode of “he is just saying that”…or “he has to say those kind of things”.  But that day I was feeling good about my hair and me for the most part, and was able to receive his compliments.  I told him my unorthodoxed methods of hair care…and he commented with approval and encouragement…and this is what he said:

“I am so tired of the economy governing people’s image.  Marketing, products, the media, Hollywood, all tell us that we are not ok the way we are…that we are not attractive unless we use this product, or do this treatment, or cut our hair this way, or look this way.  Every person has a ‘God-given’ head of hair and image, and it is beautiful because it is that person…not because the person makes their hair to look differently or like the hottest stars, but because beauty comes from the inside out.  You are beautiful.  Your spirit is beautiful.  You are beautiful because you are you.  I have been a stylist for a very long time and I am so sad that almost every woman that comes in here doesn’t know her own beauty.”

Well, let me say first of all, I was in a good space to take in his words, and it felt good.  Secondly, I left there being ok, being ok with me, even if my methods are unorthodoxed.  Thirdly, in the days following I have realized how subtly the reality of his words are true in so many aspects of my life.  As much as I say I am not going to be affected by the latest trend or the “newest conformity” enticement, I am.  Of course, there needs to be a healthy perspective between economics, marketing, business, products, development, etc. and our own self care, knowing who we are, being ok with “being ok”…  As is true in all of life, it is about balance. 

Let me end this muse with my own contemplation:  Where am I turning to the world to help define me?  Are there areas in my life where I am not ok “being ok”?  How is my inner knowing and beauty coming forth for me today?  Enjoy the thoughts.

A Brussel Sprouts Deal


Clockwise: Brussel Sprouts and Lemon Couscous; Roasted Brussel Sprouts and Walnuts in Hot Smoked Paprika; Shredded Brussel Sprouts, Pecans, and Cheddar Cheese Salad

 

Last week I got a great deal at Trader Joe’s…a stalk of Brussel sprouts for $3.49. Can’t beat that…but you do have to be creative. I had over 50 Brussel sprouts on that one stalk. So a friend and I became creative. I posted a picture of our creations on Facebook and received several requests for the recipes. So here goes:

Brussel Sprouts and Lemon Couscous

Brussel Sprouts (Approx 15)
1 box couscous (Israeli suggested)
1 Lemon
2 TBS EVOO (olive oil)
Salt
Pepper

Prepare couscous as suggested on box
When finished rinse in cold water
Peel leaves of Brussel sprouts (I peeled as far as I could and used the smaller heads for roasting)
Saute Brussel sprout leaves until bright green and many browned
Zest Lemon (approx 2 TBS)
Juice Lemon
Combine: Olive Oil, Lemon Zest, Lemon Juice, Salt and Pepper
Add in sautéed Brussel Sprouts and Couscous
Add Salt and Pepper additionally to taste.

Variations: add Red Pepper Flakes, any additional vegetables, or pecans/walnuts

Roasted Smoked Paprika Brussel Sprouts

Brussel Sprouts
EVOO or Walnut Oil
Smoked Spanish Paprika (I use “hot”)
Walnuts
Salt and Pepper to taste

Put All Ingredients in zippable bag and combine
Roast at 400 degrees (works well in a toaster oven)
Continue to toss so that all sides become roasted

Can be served hot or cold
I like to add a TBS of sweet rice vinegar if I am serving it cold as a salad – add when cold

Shredded Brussel Sprouts and Pecan Salad

Brussel Sprouts (Approx 15)
Pecans (1/2 cup or more)
Sharp Cheddar Cheese (Approx 3/4 cup loose)
Lime Juice (from one Lime)
EVOO – (2 TBS to 1/4 cup)
Salt and Pepper to taste

Shred Brussel Sprouts (mandoline slicer works well)
Roast pecans in a little EVOO, salt, and pepper – continue to toss in order to not burn – let cool
Shred Sharp Cheddar Cheese
Juice Lime
Combine all ingredients and season to taste

Variations: add red pepper flakes, change out nuts, change cheese

So I hope you have as much fun with your Brussel sprouts as I did…all of the salads last a few days…the couscous recipe is best a day later.

Share your Brussel sprouts recipes with me…I will share them.

Poetry In The Woods


.A great day to see the transition of Fall right before our eyes… I had the privilege of walking in the woods today with a friend. It was cold; too cold to be without gloves and hat…and yet I was. It was such a beautiful day that I got out two notebooks and pens and invited her to write with me. In silence we sat for a long time and put into words what we observed. I thought I would share with you those words:

Edges crinkle brown
Attachment weakens; wind blows
A new beginning

Leaves race in the wind
Carpeting the forest floors
A roof for new life

Love etched in the tree
I.M. (heart) ME
Love grows forever

The tree planted strongly
Sturdy as elephant’s feet
A firm foundation

Green, red, yellow, orange
Waiting their turn
Transition is near

Pillars of oak sway in the distance
Layers of life scatter below
She powerfully blows

It was so much fun. If I had her permission I would share her poetry as well – insightful and fun to read.

A Thought To Share: Take time to observe, to sit in the world around you, and even if you have never put pen to paper in poetry, to try writing – make it a gift to yourself

Listening


Listening is harder than you think. A friend called this morning and talked about something she just read in a book…about a commencement address on the concept of listening; being present; listening “more and more”. So of course your intellect, as prideful as it can be sometimes, says, “I listen. I am good at listening. I always know what someone says.” Then the functioning part of the intellect says, “Ok, I am going to (do this right) listen and pay attention…and focus.” In reality though, function is function, it is not being. Listening is about being present…hear words, seeing expressions, feelings other’s energy/presence…

My challenge today was to be present, listen, stay in their words, not think ahead their next thoughts… A hard challenge it was…and adding to that challenge was the grace for myself to wander and return without judgment.

A Cafe Note


In the last three days, I did an experiment. Each day I went to a different location to write. I went with the purpose of noting energies, colors, people, interactions, temperatures, to see the influence on my writing: flow, inspiration, depth of thought, etc. Most people would say, “Why?” I guess I say, “Why not?” Now I am not naive. Obviously all of the mentioned barometers are affected by many variables inside me: amount of sleep, hunger, internal temperature, emotions, etc. I get that. Regardless, it was an interesting experiment.

Day 1: Local coffee shop – warm, inviting, staff said hello, brick walls, dark colors…it felt cozy. I sat down to write and it flowed. Inspiration flowed. Thoughts, chains of thoughts, words, images, it felt good…engaging, as if I was one with the paper… I spent hours there. I did what other writers have said. I bought several drinks. I invested in my being there. The staff invested in me as well. Several folks came by and engaged in the small talk. I felt heard, accepted, encouraged. It felt so good – inspiring.

Day 2: National chain bookstore – colors not so inspiring, cafe benches were cold, the cafe was noisy. The environment was definitely less personal, but there were others there who were writing, working, conducting business. It felt like a working environment, and somehow that was inspiring. The energy was conducive to work, maybe not create, but work. I again invested in the experience. I nursed the drink, perused books, and engaged with others around me. I put my fingers to the keys and watched people. Sometimes I watch people and just let my fingers follow my thoughts…I get out of the way. The environment, in my opinion, was less conducive to inspiration and deep, profound thought…and yet the words flowed. I felt energized and encouraged.

Day 3: Another national chain bookstore – warm colors, warm environment, but it was empty. It was me and another person there for two hours. There was no “thought” going on around me. There was no chatter, interactions, business. The environment itself had so much going for it and yet there was no life there. I purchased my drink as usual and began writing. There was little there. I took a few minutes to breathe and focus…and eventually I started to write. Interestingly, what I wrote about came out in spurts of anger, aggression, judgment, and negativity. One may say, well that is good, it is good to get that out, but, honestly, there was no inspiration or satisfaction in the writing.

Conclusion: It is good to write anywhere and everywhere. More than the warmth of the colors or the space to spread out, there seems to be inspiration in the energies and people around. I know there is purpose in finding solitude at times to write, but there is something about being inspired by the work of others that is going on around you; hearing their words, feeling their urgencies, feeling their engagement, feeling the energy of creativity…another writing muse.

Anywhere is Inspiring


This morning , after voting, I had to get my car serviced.  Another task in the day.  I arrived at the service center and of course there is a wait.  There are five chairs and there are five people sitting in those chairs.  The observant man behind the desk said, “Have a seat, we will be right with you.”  I wasn’t in my cocky mood this morning, so I didn’t respond with, “And whose lap would you like me to sit on.”  I smiled instead and walked away.

It was in the 40’s outside, but I headed out to find a step to have a seat.  It is funny how you can convince yourself that 40 degrees is warm and that you love being out in the cold.  Truth be told, it actually felt wonderfully good. 

I am reading Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the writer within, by Natalie Goldberg (1986, 2005).  I was reading about writing in different places, under different circumstances, with different people, and moving out of the “box” of writing for 60-minutes everyday as a task to be completed…the good girl/boy approach.  What better place to walk the walk.  I grabbed my pen and notebook…and began writing. 

I don’t always know about what I am going to write.  I don’t know what is going to come out either.  But I did know that I had strong emotions today.  Writing is much like an adventure and today was no differently.  I have been practicing the art of surrendering in emotions…being ok with having multiple emotions; being ok in the emotions without judgment; normalizing and validating the feelings, and writing has become a part of that practice.  And so, I took a few moments to breathe, to look around and be present with my senses, to surrender and lastly to invite…and the words began to flow.  Haiku that is.  Separation, aloneness, lost, disconnectedness poured forward in Haiku.

There I sat, on freezing cold cement, outside the auto service center, in the middle of a suburban neighborhood, looking at signs of life, Fall, leaves, beauty, writing about the aching pains of not feeling connected, learning the lessons from my own words…we are always connected, there is no separation, and I can rest in that knowing.

“Miss, your car is finished.”  I returned in thought, put the pen and notebook away, and had a moment of gratitude for the solitude, the cold step, and the words.  I always learn from my words.

I hope today that you can find such a sacred place.  Don’t be surprised at where that place is and what that place inspires.

Hello world!


Hello World…a new day is dawning…I am officially entering the blog world…looking forward to sharing thoughts, ideas, recipes, fun stuff, muse, photos, and whatever comes forward.  I look forward to catching up with all of you in the days ahead.  For now, good night, sweet dreams, and be grateful as you rest, invite your intuition, and sleep well.